Because of guys like him I’m a showerbater; I admit it. I like putting on a show, and for the most part, the other people at my gym seem OK with it too. The couple of guys showering around me look as though they like seeing a show. I’m not just showing off; I like the idea of sexuality at the gym. It’s like these showers are a site of fraternal bonding. We are all here together, working on ourselves, motivating one another — and wow, this is feeling really good. I grab some more soap, bite my lip and…